so sad

The first thing that I would describe as 'sad' is the fact that I could not think of a better title for this post, and the second thing that I would describe as 'sad' is simply the idea or creating a new blog because I did not want to post too many times on the multi-writer blog that I am involved in. It sickens me that I have so much time on my hands that I actually want to bore the internet world with my horrific rambling in more than one blog. So without further time-wasting with the introduction to the first post of my blog, I may as well get straight into it; dive into the deep waters of useless words that keep me busy.

I was talking to one of my close friends about his girlfriend and how much he loves her; what a fun conversation. Although this topic is not my idea of fun, an interesting idea came up; he thinks they are having too much sex. Personally I don't understand how this is a problem, but he has an odd view on the subject. He enjoys having all this couple sex and would have more if he could, but thinks he is having it too often. I know, it doesn't make much sense but he insists that it could be an issue. His issue is that every time he sees her, they have sex.

It seems to me that they aren't really in a relationship if they can't spend time with each other without jumping into bed. She says she loves him and he says the same, but from where I stand it looks like they have absolutely nothing in common; so what do they talk about? They obviously don't talk about much if all they do is have sex, but what do they do when people are home? Sitting in the lounge room with family in front of the television, do they just sit in silence and watch or do they have something to talk about? Do they talk about how much they hate something that the other likes? Do they really love eachother or are they just attracted to eachother because of the fantastic sex, or in my friends case, the only sex he has ever had.

I am also friends with the girlfriend, but she has never once mentioned to me that they have sex too often. She has also never even hinted it to her boyfriend. Is this because, like him, she thinks it might translate into "I don't want to have sex with you anymore because its not that great", or "I am planning to break up with you but I am cutting you off gently"?

Since they have little in common, why are they even together? They weren't really friends before getting together and they had sex fairly early in the relationship; was it ever a real relationship? From what I can tell there are no signs of them breaking up and neither of them seem unhappy, but how long can they last without anything interesting between them? Must they continue to find different things to do in the bedroom just to maintain interest? If there actually is love, how long will it last?

So before this post gets too long, I should stop and eat food so I don't pass out like those WOW kids. Thanks for reading.
-Renji